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Many caregivers credit their faith or spirituality for enabling them to cope with the stress of caregiving. DC caregivers talk about the role faith or spirituality plays in their lives.
  • I don't go to church as often as I used to. It makes me sad because I was very active in church. But it's a day's work trying to get my mother and myself ready for church, so I got accustomed to not going.
  • I use the time my mother is in church to clean the house and catch up on my sleep.
  • I don't go to church anymore. I pray here at home.
  • My cousin calls to pray with me and my wife over the telephone. Other family and friends also come by often to visit and pray with us.
  • My wife and I were regulars at our church. Our faith is the source of our strength today. I don't go as often as I used to, but I do go every Sunday. I'm also active in a church group that meets at my house because the members know I can't get out at night.
  • I go to church every Sunday for at least one service. I miss going to Bible study. My faith in God keeps me going every day.

Practical Tips: Here are some comments from DC caregivers on coping.
  • Pray.
  • Remember you are not alone.
  • Look at caregiving as a ministry.
  • Talk with a clergy person.
  • If you or the elder can no longer go out to religious services, find a place of worship that will make home visitations.
  • Trust in God.
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